I have been with my partner for several years and we live with each other. We get on incredibly well and are very much in love. I would like to think that we will have a long future together. Before I started to see my boyfriend I was engaged.
Me And My Mom Share The Same Boyfriend And We Are Totally OK With It
Chat at 1 p. I am currently in a huge predicament regarding my boyfriend and my mother. Long story short, three months ago I was involved in a huge fight with my brother and we stopped speaking to each other. Last month, my mom messaged my boyfriend asking him to convince me to talk to my brother again, to which he replied that he can't control how I feel, and asked if she could not talk to me about this until after my exam that week. My mom replied with very insulting words after she misunderstood his message. She thought he was "trying to tell her what to do. I limited my contact with her for a month and gave her the cold shoulder because she refused to apologize to my boyfriend.
She's smart, strong, and beautiful, but also a bit of a mystery. How can you make this relationship work? And how do you let her know that you're not just playing games—without getting overly involved too soon? Her time is limited, and much of her energy goes toward taking care of her kids.
First of all: Well done you for doing what you had to do first i. Okay, "Dump his sorry ass and be truthful with mom" is all well and good, but there are other factors at play here which, very much muddy the waters. Simply put, all of the family factors and those dealing with feelings make it all the more confusing and so you still need more help.